This post is for anyone stressing out over their house not being perfect for the holidays. Here’s what I know:
- I don’t ever remember thinking about what our tree looked like when I was very little, except that I liked to sit and watch the colored lights and play with the wise men and Jesus.
- I do remember our family being together around the table, talking for hours, and all the great food we ate with aunts, uncles and cousins dropping by almost constantly.
- As I got older, I wondered why people chuckled when they came and looked at our trees.
- Now that I’m looking at these photos, I think I know.
- Did it matter? Absolutely not. If I had to choose between my loving family, or great decor, I’d take family in a nanosecond.
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George A Maupin
December 18, 2014 at 3:23 pmHmm. My French surname, when divided equally = Mau (from maudit or maldire) means ‘bad’ or (more properly) “Cursed (!)” from Old French-Latin Roots. Even modern French defines the word “pin” as ‘Pine-tree’ or ‘Scotch-Pine’ (!) OK, Fran, do you recognize that last one = “Scotch Pine?” RI-I-I-GHT! It appears on the label of some modern CHRISTMAS TREES (!) OK, you got the picture: Mau-pin = ‘Cursed Christmas-Tree’ ( I graciously won’t bother you with the O.T. Bible details that suggest WHY the pine-tree was cursed; your mom would throw me out of Italian-Catholic house with these words (here you may insert the proper Italian expletives). Enough said. Now you know why I would not buy an (Xmas)-Tree if you put a Mussolini-macho gun to my head. Have yourself a Merry Little Xmas, even so.
Fran Tunno
December 19, 2014 at 1:08 amToo funny George. It appears ours might have been cursed also. Have a great holiday!
Patty Tunno
December 18, 2014 at 3:55 pmWell said! I agree loving family hands down. I am so blessed to be in yours!
Fran Tunno
December 19, 2014 at 1:08 amRight back at ya sister!
JoAnn Jones
December 18, 2014 at 4:34 pmI Remember those great times coming by train from StLouis to Pittsburgh for Christmas. What fun we had as you said eating, eating and laughing and the accordion music and singing. Wonderful times just being together and usually the tree did not go up until Christmad Eve, such fun !!! Merry Christmas, Franny to you and your family. So sorry to miss Patrick’s wedding but hope we can get together this summer. Love, JoAnn
Fran Tunno
December 19, 2014 at 1:10 amOh Joann, I wish you could be there. It should be quite the reunion. I am sure we’ll take lots of photos to show you. Yes, hope to see you soon. Have a wonderful Christmas and 2015! Give my best to your mom!
Nicol Zanzarella
December 19, 2014 at 5:26 pmOh, Frenzie, it warms my heart through all of these posts that you are going to get the chance to be with the family this year! Have a truly beautiful time and can’t wait to hear all about it when you get back!! Buon Natale!
Fran Tunno
December 20, 2014 at 8:17 pmThank you Nicol. I just had the most fabulous time at my nephew Patrick’s wedding! It couldn’t have been better!
Diane Finley
December 23, 2014 at 10:21 amFran, I love these posts. They remind me of the years my Grandmother was alive. We’d all gather at her house (my mom, her 6 siblings, and cousins too many to count) and we’d eat and eat. I can’t remember her tree at all, just the memories and live around the table.
Bunn Natale,
Di
Fran Tunno
December 23, 2014 at 10:37 pmThanks Di. How funny, I didn’t remember that you were Italian until we reconnected. The memories are the best, I’m so glad you have them too. My post tomorrow will be all about Christmas Eve. Should be fun!